Learning how to pray effectively, faithfully, fervently and biblically is challenging for many Christians. Francis Chan said a group of over 50 thousand college students at the Passion conference in 2015: “My biggest concern for this generation is your inability to focus, especially in prayer.”
If I were to ask you how is your prayer life how would you answer that? Or if I was more specific are you spending regular time with God in prayer daily what would you say?
Or to take it a step further are you enjoying God in regular times of prayer? Now I don’t intend to do any drive by guilting knowing know that many Christians don’t have a prayer life that the Scripture calls them to live . But I desire to stir you up to live prayerful lives knowing that it is clearly God’s will for us expressed in Scripture that you be a prayerful person (1 Thess. 5:16-17, Colossians 4:2, Romans 12:12). And I want to give you some helpful tools for prayer from the Scriptures. Specifically, I would like to look at the Psalms a language book for prayer. Anyone who learns language does so best be immersion in the language and the book of Psalms gives us language for prayer, as one church father wrote:
“Most Scriptures speak to us; the Psalms speak for us” Athanasius
* My one and half year old son Justus is at the stage where he is straining to communicate with his words which often come out as grunts, groans and expressions of frustration because it is difficult for us to understand him. Nevertheless, he is picking up words and when our family hears him say a word clearly it brings delight to all of us in the family because it’s the first time we hear him say certain things. We are immersing the youngest member of our family in the English language and it won’t be very long before he is communicating more clearly in English. As children of God we don’t have to remain stuck in frustration of not knowing how to communicate to God and pour out our souls to Him. We have been given access to the Father and we have His ear towards us. Though we may struggle to find the write words God has given words in Scripture to help guide us in developing a vibrant prayer life from the book of Psalms.
Eugene Peterson wrote these words about praying the Psalms :
If we want to pray our true condition, our total selves in response to the living God, expressing our feelings is not enough – we need a long apprenticeship in prayer. And then we need graduate school. The Psalms are the school.
The Psalms are the cemetery in which our Lord the Spirit leads us to get out of ourselves, to rescue our prayers from self-absorption. and set us on a way to God-responsiveness. Eugene Peterson, Under the Unpredictable Plant
Ambrose called the Psalms a “gymansium”; in we go for daily workouts, keeping ourselves in shape for a life of spirituality, fully alive human beings.
Dietrich Bonhoeffer in his book Life Together wrote this about the important of learning to pray from the Psalms:
“The prayers of David were also prayed by Christ. Or better Christ himself prayed them through his forerunner.”
“It would not be difficult to arrange all of the Psalms according to the petitions of the Lord’s Prayer. We should need to change only slightly our arrangement of the order of the sections”
“The Psalter is the prayer book of Jesus Christ in the truest sense of the word. He prayed the Psalter and now it has become his prayer for all time…we understand how the Psalter can be prayer to God and yet God’s own Word, precisely because here we encounter the praying Christ…because those who pray the psalms are joining in with the prayer of Jesus Christ, their prayer reaches the ears of God. Christ has become their intercessor…
“In the Psalter we learn to pray on the basis of Christ’s prayer. The Psalter is the great school of prayer. Here we learn, first, what prayer means. It means praying according to God’s Word, on the basis of His promises…the whole sweep of the Book of Psalms was concerned with nothing more nor less than the brief petitions of the Lord’s Prayer. In all our praying there remains only the prayer of Jesus Christ…The more deeply we grow into the psalms and the more often we pray them as our own, the more simple and rich will our prayer become.”
What is prayer?
- Prayer is pouring out our hearts to God in praise, petition, confession of sin, and thanksgiving. New City Catechism
- Prayer is personal address to a personal God. Ed Clowney
- Prayer is a personal, communicative repose to the knowledge of God. Tim Keller,
- Prayer is a response to God who speaks to us. God’s word is always first. He gets the first word in, always. We answer. Eugene Peterson
- Prayer is a conversation, but not one we start. God speaks first. His voice sounds in the Scriptures and climactically in the person and work of his Son. Then, wonder of all wonders, he stops, he stoops, he bends his ear to listen to us. David Mathis, Habits of Grace
- If prayer to be a true conversation with God, it must be regularly preceded by listening to God’s voice through meditation on Scripture. Tim Keller
Let’s look at Psalm 25 to learn several lessons on prayer from David who was one of the greatest prayer warriors in Scripture.
- Prayer is a lifting of the soul to the Lord (directing desire).
- To you, O Lord, I lift up my soul. -V1
Matthew Henry wrote this about: “Prayer is the ascent of the soul to God; God must be eyed and the soul employed”
Charles Spurgeon commenting on this said:
True prayer may be described as the soul rising from earth to have fellowship with heaven; it is taking a journey upon Jacob’s ladder, leaving our cares and fears at the foot, and meeting with a covenant God at the top. Very often the soul cannot rise, she has lost her wings, and is heavy and earth bound; more like a burrowing mole than a soaring eagle. At such dull seasons we must not give over prayer, but must, by God’s assistance, exert all our powers to lift up our hearts. Let faith be the lever and grace be the arm, and the dead lump will yet be stirred.
2. Prayer is an expression of trust in the Lord. V2
- O my God, in you I trust; let me not be put to shame; let not my enemies exult over me.
3. Prayer involves waiting on God. V3, 21
- Indeed, none who wait for you shall be put to shame; they shall be ashamed who are wantonly treacherous. Psalm 25:3
- May integrity and uprightness preserve me, for I wait for you. Psalm 25:21
Eugene Peterson wrote that: “Waiting in prayer is a disciplined refusal to act before God acts.”
The Puritans would say “pray until you pray.”
D.A. Carson wrote about this explains what they meant : “What they mean is that Christians should pray long enough and honestly enough, at a single session, to get past the feeling of formalism and unreality that attends not a little praying…If we “pray until we pray,” eventually we come to delight in God’s presence, to rest in his love, to cherish his will. Even in dark or agonized praying, we somehow know we are doing business with God. In short, we discover a little of what Jude means when he exhorts his readers to pray “in the Holy Spirit” (Jude 20)—which presumably means it is treacherously possible to pray not in the Spirit.”
4. Prayer aligns our lives with God’s will and requests His guidance- V4-5
- Make me to know your ways, O Lord; teach me your paths.Lead me in your truth and teach me, for you are the God of my salvation; for you I wait all the day long. Psalm 25:4-5 ESV
5. Prayer involves requesting forgiveness accompanied by confession . V7,11
- Remember not the sins of my youth or my transgressions; according to your steadfast love remember me, for the sake of your goodness, O Lord! V7
- For your name’s sake, O Lord, pardon my guilt, for it is great. V11
6. Prayer involves appealing to God’s character. V6-7
- Remember your mercy, O Lord, and your steadfast love, for they have been from of old. Remember not the sins of my youth or my transgressions; according to your steadfast love remember me, for the sake of your goodness, O Lord! Psalm 25:6-7 ESV
Charles Spurgeon wrote this about appealing to God’s character in prayer: “You or I may take a hold at any time upon the justice, the mercy, the faithfulness, the wisdom, the long suffering, the tenderness of God; and we will find every attribute of the Most High to be, as it were, a great battering ram with which we may open the gates of heaven.”
7. Prayer focuses on God’s works and ways. V8-10
Good and upright is the Lord; therefore he instructs sinners in the way. He leads the humble in what is right, and teaches the humble his way. All the paths of the Lord are steadfast love and faithfulness, for those who keep his covenant and his testimonies. V8-10
8. Prayer is invoking God’s name -V11
- For your name’s sake, O Lord, pardon my guilt, for it is great. Psalm 25:11 ESV
9. Prayer is about experiencing intimacy with God-V14
- Who is the man who fears the Lord? Him will he instruct in the way that he should choose. His soul shall abide in well-being, and his offspring shall inherit the land. The friendship of the Lord is for those who fear him, and he makes known to them his covenant. Psalm 25:12-14 ESV
One of the greatest things about prayer is that through it we get closer to God. We get the great privilege of being friends of God and through this friendship He shares things with us that are dear to His heart. Verse 14 reminds me of Abraham’s relationship with God which was described as a friendship (James 2:23).
10. Prayer is about focusing our eyes and ears toward God-15
- My eyes are ever toward the Lord, for he will pluck my feet out of the net.V15
Jesus “lifted up his eyes to heaven” when he prayed his great high priestly prayer in John 17:2.
11. Prayer involves pouring our hearts out to God- V16-20
- Turn to me and be gracious to me, for I am lonely and afflicted.The troubles of my heart are enlarged; bring me out of my distresses. Consider my affliction and my trouble, and forgive all my sins. Consider how many are my foes, and with what violent hatred they hate me. Oh, guard my soul, and deliver me!Let me not be put to shame, for I take refuge in you. Psalm 25:16-20 ESV
David’s Troubles Included
- Loneliness-V16
- Affliction-V16
- Distress-V17
- Guilt-V7,11,18
- Enemies -V2
- Need for Guidance-V 4-5,8-10
12. Prayer is taking refuge in God-V20
- Let me not be put to shame, for I take refuge in you. Psalm 25:20 ESV
13. Prayer involves petitioning on behalf of others.-V22
- Redeem Israel, O God, out of all his troubles. V22
Note that in the Lord’s prayer that Jesus taught His followers to “our Father”, “give us”,”Forgive us”, “deliver us”… This connects our prayers to the entire faith community which we have become united with through Christ. The Apostle Paul instructed the Saints in Ephesus to make supplications for all the Saints (Ephesians 6:18).
- So if you need to help in your prayer life then let me encouraged you to use the Psalms as regular tool for your prayers. Allow them shape your prayers and give language to your prayers. Use them as a springboard for communion with God and praying for the church and the world around you.
- Write out prayers to better focus and engage. This could also serve as a reminder for when prayers are answered that you may have forgotten about.
- Sing the Psalms using melodies put to the Psalm that you already know or make up your own melodies for the Psalms. There are excellent albums that that use the content of the Psalms such as Shane and Shane albums Psalms volume 1 and 2.
- Teach and admonish other Christians with the Psalms (Col. 1:16, Ephesians 5:19). According to the Apostle Paul this is to be a regular element in our corporate worship.
May God bring revival to your personal prayer life as you engage in the ongoing conversation that He has invited you into!